Passover Guide

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Dear friends,

A piece of midrash, or rabbinic storytelling, about Passover reads: 

When the ancient Israelites were crossing the sea [to freedom, during the Passover story] and a child started to cry, the child’s parent only needed to reach out a hand and pluck an apple or a pomegranate out of the sea. God led the people through the depths in the same way that God would later lead them through the wilderness—and just as the people lacked nothing in the wilderness [where they ate the manna that was mysteriously provided for them], so also they lacked nothing in the depths. (Shemot Rabbah 21:10)

In these challenging times, many of us may feel like we are navigating the depths, unable to see very far ahead. Even in the midst of difficulty or narrowness, how can we reach out for each other and the fruits of community, just as the people in the story picked fruit out of the sea?

We’re grateful to be in community with you and glad to share this guide, full of resources, information, and events to welcome in the holiday. Not sure how you want to celebrate ? Rabbi Gray is available to take you to coffee (in-person or virtual!) to chat more about Passover offerings and where you might find your place.

Did we miss your event? Take ~2 minutes and submit it to our online calendar, and we’ll get them posted in the guide.

We’ll be updating this guide as we hear about more events in the Bay Area, so check back often.

Chag Pesach Sameach, wishing you a meaningful Passover,

The GatherBay team (R’ Gray and Caroline)

Passover Seders in the Bay Area

Saturday, April 12

First night of Passover

Sunday, April 13

Second night of Passover

Other Seders

Note: GatherBay highlights experiences and events that will be for/with young(ish) adults. If you’re looking for seders or events for families or young children, J Weekly has an excellent list of more family-friendly experiences. Their list also includes seders in the North Bay, San Francisco, and the South Bay/Peninsula.

Hosting, Seder-Matching, and Local Resources

Financial Support

Looking for a way to subsidize your seder? OneTable is an organization that provides financial support to folks aged 21-39ish who host Shabbat dinners. This year, they’re also supporting first and second night seders at $10/per person.

They’ve also pulled together new resources to support you and are Nourishing Seders on April 12 + 13 and Passover Shabbat on April 18. If you’re hosting a Seder or Passover Shabbat this year (and we hope you are!), here are the key dates:

  • For Seders (first or second night — your choice), post your dinner by April 8 + get your RSVPs in by April 9.
  • For Passover Shabbat, post your dinner by April 15 + get your RSVPs in by April 16.
  • If you’re not already a OneTable host, you’ll need to apply by Thursday, April 11.

Have questions about OneTable? Email the Senior Bay Area Field Manager, Maya Katz Ali: maya@onetable.org.

Seder Matching

From Minyan Dafna in Berkeley: “Pesach is approaching, and we’re coordinating seder matching! Are you are hosting a seder and have some extra space? Are you looking for a seder to attend? We’d love to help connect you! Please fill out this form by Sunday, April 6 if you would like to host or attend!”

From Congregation Netivot Shalom in Berkeley: “Are you looking to be hosted or to host others at your seder table? Seder matching is being coordinated again this year by Mindy Berkowitz. Please email Mindy at sedermatching@netivotshalom.org and indicate if you want to be a host or a guest, as well as any needs such as: first night or second night seder, or if you’re vegetarian or have children, etc. Let’s make sure everyone has a place at the seder table.”

Where to get Passover Food in the Bay

From J Weekly, their guide on where to order food, wine, and more! This is just a starting point and they’ve got info for all across the Bay Area.

Also some recipes!

Haggadot & Resources

The Haggadah (book describing the order of the Seder) and beyond:

  • Passover Resources, Haggadot, and Rituals for This Moment and Beyond from national Jewish nonprofit Avodah
  • Keshet, a national organization supporting LGBTQ+ Jews, has Passover resources
  • Matir Asurim, a Jewish Care Network for Incarcerated People, “connects Jewish spiritual, cultural, and communal resources to people who have experienced incarceration,” and has a number of resources for Passover (including a haggadah!). 
  • The Jewish Community Library in San Francisco lends out sets of up to ten haggadot in a wide variety of versions at no charge. The haggadot are available on a first come, first served basis, and should be reserved in advance by writing to info@jewishcommunitylibrary.org. They may be picked up from the Library, which is open on Sundays 12-4, and Mondays, Tuesdays, and Thursdays 11am-5:30pm.
  • Dancing In-Between (2023 edition) from The Lunar Collective—“Created by a committee of 17 Asian Jews, this new Haggadah is a joyful celebration of being both Asian and Jewish amidst powerful Passover rituals.”
  • Find or make your own Haggadah from Haggadot.com (by Recustom)
  • Check out Honeymoon Israel’s Reimagined Rituals for a Seder Table Cheat Sheet or use the Four Glasses of Wine hosting guide to host a mini-seder with meaning. Plus more to fit your family’s unique style for this season of reflection. https://honeymoonisrael.org/passover-2025/#inspiration

The views and opinions expressed by the organizations featured on this guide and on this website are solely those of the original organizations. These views and opinions do not necessarily represent those of the organization GatherBay, the Gather Inc team, the Gather Inc board, and/or any/all contributors to this site.